And the university administrator is no more

Just like that, she's evaporated.

My wife, you see, has seen pictures of her (because she sent them to me, to an account I had told her my wife reads).  She wanted to see pictures of my wife in return.  ("It's only fair," she said.)

I refused.  For a bunch of reasons, some practical/privacy-related, others simply principled.  The bottom line, I guess, is that life ISN'T fair.  So she's gone....